"I don't think that being a strong person is about ignoring your emotions and fighting your feelings. Putting on a brave face doesn't mean you're a brave person. That's why everybody in my life knows everything that I'm going through. I can't hide anything from them. People need to realise that being open isn't the same as being weak."

- Taylor Swift

Speak Now


1. Introduction (an introduction to the Speak Now series)

2. Comments and Commentary (information on the comment moderation policy of Speak Now)

3. C'est Moi (a little bit about me) 

4. The List (how to keep me posted on what you would like me to discuss, and how to become a guest writer) 

5. Consent, Morality & Safety (an introduction to the ideologies and attitudes of the sex positive movement)

6. Biology, Identity, Orientation & Expression (an overview of the different elements of human sexuality) 

7. Becoming Bisexual (my experiences of attraction) 

8. Sexuality & Society Part I: The Virginity Myth (a discussion of why it is impossible to define virginity and why the virginity myth is a harmful social construction) 

9. 'Like Colour Bursting Onto a World of Black and White' (I talk Game of Thrones, mathematics, tampons and the evils of lynx deodorant with my fellow non-binary atheist Solomon) 

10. Sexuality & Society Part II: The Cult of Purity (an analysis of the cult of purity and why it's creepy and damaging) 

11. How to be Sexually Correct (a crash course in how to avoid cissexist gendered language) 

12. Sexuality & Society Part III: The Slut Monster (the origin and impact of the misunderstanding and stigmatisation of female sexuality and promiscuity) 

13. Tumblr Launch and My Favourite Internet Haunts (kind of self explanatory?) 

14. Abstinence (a discussion of voluntary and involuntary celibacy in the context of sex positivity)

15. The Slut Factor (I talk tequila, feminism, rape culture, slut shaming & chivalry with the 2013 UWA Women's Affairs Officer) 

16. Sexuality & Shame in Society Part I: Slut Shaming (what slut shaming is, and its impacts on our society)

17. On Being PC and Being Me

18. Insecurities & Confidence (on body love, haters and how to feel good naked)

19. My Experiences with Anxiety

20. Everything That Porn Won't Teach You 

21. Privilege, Dudebros & the Patriarchy (I talk gender neutral pronouns, transgender awareness and the ugly side of rape culture with Trinity)

22. Sexuality & Shame in Society Part II: Virgin Shaming (a dissection of the hypocritically confusing and gendered phenomenon of virgin shaming) 

23. The Sex Talk: Periods (real quotes from real people)

24: Period Talk

25. Feministish Analysis

26. Vulva Love

27. Australia's War on Labia 

28. Mr Ticklefight 

29. A caveat on virginity

30. Navigating hook-up culture 
(fyi the clicky ones are published posts. The non-clicky ones are posts that I have written and are scheduled for publication) 

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